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Some Blabber More..

Last night dinner with my cousin.. a few thoughts came up, which I have been thinking a lot lately for self improvement, became clearer & stronger further :

  • Confidence to look inside by being objective came from doing decently well at WORK – which is probably not Ideal or recommended but in my case it had to be via Work because it plays an extremely important role in my life.
  • Piush had alot to do with giving this confidence & then mentoring me to look further inside to become a better person – though his recommendations were from work aspects but its not surprising that exactly same qualities are required by me in current life – To be Analytical, Amiable 🙂 always..
  • Sneha’s constant response to my blabbers, traits, behaviours, words were more than helpful – Probably I am indebted to her for Life for this. I used to always think that am high on empathy, concern for others & outward looking while honestly I was only being selfish in all my pursuits by only expressing what I felt was right while ACTUALLY NOT realising what the other person is saying or wanting to say or means or feels. This has been a revelation of sorts to be equally if not more concerned about what the other person is saying, feeling, thinking, wanting.
  • Probably all my relationships have gone wrong at some points coz of my constant need to control & looking inward only – Mac, Rahul, Appy, Shweta Di, Nakul are a few I can think FirstHand.
  • Am not very good at Letting Go! It comes from Impatience, not trusting others to do the Right, not giving space – COMPLETE NO NO!
  • I was not very good at having difficult conversations – but have to learnt the art of having a difficult conversation in a peaceful way.
  • I did fear losing others and myself a lot – majorly Fear was making all the decisions which is not the Right way always!
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Random Musings 4th Feb 2017

Random Musings for a Weekend :
Some Friends Disappoint You – Let them!
You Do not get enough Appreciation at Work – Let it Be!
You Do not Find your Kind of People around – Be So!
You are not able to find time for your Passions & things you truly care – Not Cool!
You do not find enough strength to not repeat same mistakes – Not Good at all!
You get disappointed easily & require constant motivation – Disastrous!
You find something worth improving in yourself but do not find enough inspiration – Look inside further!
But do not be too Harsh upon yourself, everything is natural over here & let it flow – accept everything that comes along even the injustice, wrong-doings, rude behaviour. Speak/Express Out in whichever manner it comforts you but do not hurt yourself for long to make the dents permanent!
Let it heal, let it breathe space & comfort! Everything is good & will find its space soon.
Always remind yourself that at the end its the Mother Earth which will survive, we all are going to perish & be part of 5 elements of nature!