Well – It is…
And it is important you never stop believing in that & the Person/Things you decide to invest Love in… It is important to invest your faith more than money, time in People/Qualities/Values/Hobbies you Hold dear to your Heart.
Its okay to have doubts, questions for the same & their value additions to your life + vice versa. But that’s when you decide to hold strong & go back to check the emotion which made you choose that & not something else.. Its important you remain Honest to that EMOTION & Grind to see the Other Side. Don’t give up easy as it’s giving up on your own self belief.
If it was a frivolous & a transactional Emotion e.g. convenience – it is bound to create ripples & doubts! However if the emotion is strong then all negatives are overcome mostly!
It’s important one sees one’s relationships like a mirror that why did you happen to be with that person – was it coz you were neighbors so you happened to spend a lot of time together & resulted in being married as this person was it. Then you should remain honest to that selection. If you happen to regret it later then you are doing double damage.
These emotions can be Pure Attraction, Loyalty, Duty, Responsibility, Faith, Deep connection or even transactional like Money, Fame, Sex, convenience, etc.
Just remember that the effect of the deepness or shallowness of emotion shall be the same as felt! Its a simple law of : “you reap as you sow”!
Its also important to Let it Flow & Not Hold on to tight for things to change…
I very strongly believe that this world RIGHT NOW really needs more such people who know how to love, care, give, believe truly and am not really talking about the traditional marriage way.
I mean two capable strong, successful people who can give + provide to one another’s needs. Who are not very demanding but understand one another in silence. People who have their own perspectives & yet can appreciate/respect one another’s.
Modern yet believe & trust in the old fashioned ways.