So I have been thinking about it a lot recently… that you DO control & are responsible for everything happening to you in most of the ways! You chose those experiences.
Its mystical & probably mythical but I do Believe in this Totally.
When I go back into my past & try look at critical moments from an unattached way – I do find lots of answers for Present being the Way it is.
Somethings are pre-defined or pre-subscribed like the macro-economic factors, your Physical Appearances, Your Lineage/Birth, Your career path (to great extent) but the extract you take out of it is completely YOUR OWN & YOUR VERY OWN!
This is What defines your Remarkableness or Your Quest for Greatness !
Seek That Juice Made for you & Keep it like Your Secret Portion coz no one else can create that is meant for you.
Let that juice have all the ingredients you wish for – money, fame, social acceptance, satisfaction, peace, Love, Sex, Physical intimacy, spirituality, knowledge, fitness, Pride – my only secret addition will be that of Empathy or Compassion for other Human Beings! Coz Our World needs it Badly.
How quickly can you understand the other people’s needs, issues, challenges & provide for that will define the success of this human race & in a way of your own.
Try & Find Values Dear To you & Stick by them forever – they will be Your Guiding Light! But Learn to master them by not letting you do the same mistake again n again.