How My Media Aversion Has Helped Me!

It was a hard thought decision but something I should have done long back to be a much STRONGER & MORE CONFIDENT Human Being! Yes You Heard It, Long Back!!

I stopped quite a lot of Media Inflows towards me (my ears, eyes, most importantly Mind), in order to do that I did the following :

  • Stopped Reading All the Media websites & Apps (TOI was banned long back, NDTV, IndiaToday, IBN, etc.)
  • Removed TV Subscription (Best Decision Ever)
  • Shortened Facebook time to <5mins/week & diverting the remaining time to reading, linkedin, twitter, medium on filtered interests/subjects.
  • Forming my Viewpoints towards everything based on my own Research (well judged resources + Authentic sources) rather than word services of others
  • Adjudging the Media, Film world, Cricketers in my life what they are – PRESSTITUTES!
  • Avoiding all so called friends/influencers who promoted the Above or spoke mostly about the same

This happened as a result of above :

  • The filtered content was self approved & self adjudged
  • Got more time to do my research & form my own opinions based on topics that I was curious about, which is much better than being involuntarily educated at topics of no interest or motivation
  • Found & Relied on much informed company of intellectuals & common believers
  • I could only focus on what I WANTED FROM MYSELF !! I COULD SEE MYSELF AS A CLEAN SLATE & JUDGE MY BREATHE, MY ACTIONS, MY WAVES, RAYS, ENERGY IN A COMPLETE IMPARTIAL LIGHT
  • PM, Startups, Tech, VCs, Design, Statistics, World Politics & Trade, Travel, Clicking, Values, Ethics, History, Human Psychology, Sports (Quality), Social Entrepreneur – these are subjects that I know am not going to leave till the end of my breath! So happy to have discovered them as interests, serious hobbies, passions.
  • I can see my Vision & Dreams alot more clearly & am much more determined than ever to achieve them by building small blocks & gathering people around.

Hope it helps others as well!! Peace for All, Amen.

 

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ZINGOGRAPHY : Tech/Product/UX/Startup Update # 8

Today I wish to compare the startup spaces in Indian & European Context. Those who read this should know that I share this majorly for my own clarity & perspective and if it helps others then great!

Recently, I have been focussing on 3 main things apart from my daily work & travel :

  • Reading a lot about new skill sets essential for PM especially like Deep Learning, Data Mining
  • Linking it with my current Work & Profile as well as Future Roles that I wish to do
  • Collaborating it with other PMs in different sectors/industries/companies

And there are some Key Insights regarding Different Geographical Consumer Tech companies that I have concluded :

  • Focus in Indian Companies (Startups as well as Big Ones) is to scale
  • Focus in European Companies is to understand the consumer behaviour first & sync all departments of technology, data, customer service towards that ONE Customer Proposition/their USP which will help them Succeed while focussing less or almost nothing on others
  • In US Companies, they go for massive funding & their aim is that – once establishing a prototype (more or less that with a short term vision)
  • SEA are replicating Chinese models more or less in terms of consumer personas as well as Tech Propositions
  • MENA regions are going like Indian Conglomerates – slow & cautious for the models that are already well proven for success

Let me also talk about a few skills which are becoming redundant as in they are understood that you will have when you apply for Product Roles :

  • Digital Marketing
  • Product Design & Strategy
  • KPI Metrics Management
  • Project Management
  • P&L Ownership
  • Business Development
  • Hiring & Training

These are the new skills towards which you need to show inclination & an aptitude for – please remember that though these may seem new worlds, their nuances are based in subjects well introduced to us. So let me give the picture complete for better understanding :

  • Machine Learning/AI/Deep Learning : Maths, Statistics, Computer Science for Coding
  • Blockchain : Telecom, Communications, System/Server Integration
  • AR/VR : Electronics, Robotics, Graphic Designing
  • 3D Printing : Biotechnology, Engineering Drawing

Personally I enjoy first 3 a lot & keep looking how it can be valuable in my current scope of work!

My Time is Yet to Come!

Hence it is important to believe….. With undeterred confidence..

Believe well & strong & in a non – deterring way

Let nothing make you think otherwise!

Do more of things that make you feel wanted, Loved, at peace, balanced.

Be indifferent to wants, desires, expectations, results, what next!

Just focus on doing your best in current moment & leave the rest!

Success/ Failure should be considered the same..

Doing your deed with dedication should be your focus.

Detach yourself from all that is false, just focus on God & your deed

It is important to remind yourself of these small things….

My True Calling

I think I have written multiple articles on my Dream, Future Plans, What I like, etc.

In the same space, sharing that in the past 31 years or so what have I truly held close to my heart & what I feel am truly meant for :

  • SPORTS : I could have had a more elongated career in Badminton for sure had my Father allowed me. But it was not meant to be – I remember being unhappy by its absence in my coming years
  • ENTREPRENEUR : Carving my own path, leading the way comes naturally to me because of me being eldest in my family generation
  • TRAVEL : just leave everything to go-to wander & experience everything under the sun
  • CREATIVITY : to start off with something on my own
  • LARGE SCALE
  • SOCIAL UPLIFTMENT
  • VALUES & MORALES

My Own Thing.. Stamped MS

I just want my own things….. I don’t wish to compare or discuss or envy or even boast!

I just wish things to happen the way they should for me….

At Work : Create some great Products with Great Funny & Intellectual Beings… Grow Gradually without any conflict & envy…. Significant enough to be noticed as an achiever & a Happy Good one!

In Family : A happy, motivated Soul with a sense of Objectiveness! Small Loving & Supporting Family who Love doing their own things & still enjoy look forward to doing things together! Everyone is Proud of each other & themselves.. Comes across as Pvt & still Social to Others around. Very Much at Peace

Husband : Someone Loving, Caring who believes in Simple things & is an old soul yet Fun in contemporary times! Passionate about his own things & supportive of mine. Patience to be a virtue, Smile to die for!

House : A small cozy yet Modern abode which loves to welcome one & all – smells of warmth & bondings!

Hobbies : Hasn’t Travel & Click become too cliche` .. Still they do form my very strong Pillars along with Reading, writing! & Yes Sports

Passion : To create & execute Product Ideas for different use case bases

My Own Ventures : Agency + Dream Realization + Product Startup + SHG + VC + Startup Cell in own alma mater!

I just things to be stamped with my own individuality! AM YES!

That VISION For Me!

Till I don’t achieve it!

Till I don’t remove everything that’s blocking me from achieving it…

Till I don’t make every change in my life to make that VISION a reality…

I won’t give it up…!

And achieving it while not letting your values dilute – is most essential!

That vision is me at peace, calm, happy, smiling, dressed in pastel shade indian clothes or loose western clothes with no fear, concern – just satisfied & positive for life ahead!

  • Global Product Role
  • Executive MBA
  • Healthy Lifestyle + Amazing Wardrobe
  • Financial Strength + Savings Build
  • Dream Realization
  • Product Initiative
  • SHGs Series
  • Agency MakeUp
  • CEO of Consumer Tech/ Product company
  • Family – small & happy, loving
  • Parents Travel + Bungalow
  • Dikku’s Lifestyle
  • Startup Cell in XLRI + Societies in SMC
  • Tourism Experience Transformation for true appreciation of history, heritage, culture, people, values, etc.

 

#2018 My First Article of the Year

As you grow younger 😉 you realise there is too much noise around you which can overwhelm you so much that you can lose touch with yourself. So I decided to write some hard to move things about myself that I shall always keep checking & coming back for reminders :

Personality :

Basically Timid, Soft, Introvert & Caring, Loving, Friendly + too empathetic to a level of fault! But as & when required strengthen myself to being rock solid focussed especially with nerves of steel. Love being inspired & pushing myself to achieve the ultimate journey! My recent social meetings have told me that I tend to not understand other people’s perspectives that they are trying hard to make me understand – which I promised them I will work upon! Another thing they have told me is to work on my appearance which also I will! Also to thicken my skin more to not be impacted emotionally or verbally!
I started by playing sports & identify a lot with people who play physical sports & understand its nuisances.

Work :

I work for Consumer Product Solutions & I quite love it coz it helps me think from consumers Hats & use Technology (especially the gizzzzyyyy fizzzzyyyy ones) to solve their problems!
Love UX Totally completely like a Mushy Baby! But I believe everything should be done keeping consumers in mind & when I work in teams I believe in keeping my team forward even if that means taking a step back or not getting appreciation or not being heard at times.

Passions : (That I can’t stop thinking & it only makes me Happy doing more & more about it)

Travel – Yes all of it, any of it even as simple as going to office & coming back or going for a walk around my building or going home or waiting at airport listening/observing customers stories and/or strangers stories making spontaneous friends!

Clicking – Yes all of it again especially the technicality – camera mechanics, Image details & improvisations.

Reading & Writing – I think Reading is the best form of listening & Writing is the best form of speaking when in Silence. Also I call them one because they work in tandem for me. Wish to learn some more intricacies around it.

I feel personally these 3 things have played the maximum roles in my growth as an individual & been completely with me when none or nothing has been so I can’t leave them anytime soon.

Other Hobbies :

Music – Yes it helps me declutter a lot

Food + Cooking – I love experimenting with new ones while sticking to the good old basics

Movies – It gives a huge good perspective! Sometimes redemptive, sometimes imaginary but it has become like finding a diamond in coal mine.

Yoga + Health + Sports – Love Yoga & totally recommended, Health (Mental + Physical) comes first & Sports is my way for life.

My Favorite Ideal Work Routine :

  • Wake Up 7am
  • Have a glass of warm water
  • Do Yoga & Meditation
  • Get Ready
  • Eat Breakfast
  • Reach Work (Preferably 9am – early enough to set the agenda)
  • Set Up meetings & attend them with Sales Team 🙂 with white-boarding & hustling prowess – come out with deliverables for each!
  • Follow up with developers & designers
  • Have a quick lunch preferably at desk if there’s nothing else on agenda like networking or talking to a team colleague about something
  • Second round of followups & meetings – even if it means going outside for market studies or partner meetings
  • Come Back Home by 7pm
  • Unwinding by music or shower or talking on phone or surfing net on a subject thats been bugging me whole day or cooking while watching a classic video 🙂
  • Have Dinner, Read & Sleep

My Favorite Ideal Weekend Routine :

  • Get up a bit late 😉
  • Sort out home stuff – cleaning, grocery + daily needs, clothes, wardrobe, personal care, setting 2 day plan basis current need like socialising, blogging, cooking, Course updation, Skill enhancement, Networking, Personal Projects alignment, visiting my favourite bookstore or salad place or ordering my favourite pizzas
  • Am cool coming back late on Friday Nights & Saturday nights & a good brunch on Sunday shines my day! 🙂
  • Completing my weekdays read is extremely joyous moment!

Should be enough for now, if can think of more – will come back 🙂

 

Indian Gifts that will shine always #2018

  • YOGA
  • Ayurveda
  • Indian Education System
  • Family Ecosystem
  • Business Culture of the small families, SMEs & SHGs
  • Mahabharat + Ramayan epics
  • Peace – Buddha, Gandhi, Jainism Message
  • Technology Outsourcing yep – The Brain Drain!
  • Strong depth of History & Culture

What India needs to be known for even more :

  • Creating an indigenous model for rural + urban cooperation in health, education, individual spending habits
  • Lost & Found unique examples of Art, culture, food, handicraft, faith, medicinal treatments, astrology, science, maths
  • Unique Business Models like Dabbawala serving masses involving huge labour & connect with upper middle classes
  • Adopting Modernism in Agriculture (yet to happen)
  • Developing models around sanitation, cleanliness, desalination of water, renewable energy, Better Forecast Mechanisms

My Fears for Indian Growth :

  • Money Ownership concentrated to limited HNIs much like Middle East
  • Aspirations & Representations like USA but lack of system might topple them to the other side
  • So far rapid growth & development in manufacturing, electronics, Digital is due to China (aping)
  • Laggardness in promoting Pride & History like Europe
  • Different cultures & variety like SEA & Europe again proving to be a challenge

In reality – India shall grow by a unique model of Govt & a few HNI hand in hand for now. Remaining Pvt bodies as well as SMEs will have to be alot more cooperative to Govt regulations & financial guidelines to ensure the growth is entirely & completely inclusive. Once that happens & penetration of the Good can go deep, growth will automatically happen which I have no doubt about.

Also India & Indians need to understand a few other things :

  • Less spending time on mobile & digital devices
  • More time being spent on exploring & understanding the world + people around you
  • Less spending time & energy & giving less importance to celebrities & entertainment modes or other distracting modes
  • More time being spent on knowing your trueselves & your true potentials
  • Aping others blindly for solutions, inspirations
  • Being independent, fearless, self reliant in true meaning

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Mithali Raj – Second Blog in 6 mths!

http://www.livemint.com/Sports/P2K1h746W6lHenFvfNWYZJ/Mithali-Rajs-long-innings.html

This article made me write a 2nd blog on her!

I feel so much common with her that its difficult to describe in words. The struggle, standing up for self, not giving up on one’s values, keeping parents & performance first – these are the simple but strong values that middle class girls in India from 80s & early 90s were brought up with.

So many of them gave in to marriage, materialism, shallowness for reasons unknown! Yet it feels so RIGHT when a few of them make it to the TOP & wish to be raring to go even more – Mithali Raj, you inspire me to not give up despite all hardships & disappointments and am most thankful to you for that.

Second, you inspire me how to carry myself with grit & humbleness!

Am sure you inspire so many others a lot more – my wish & pray that girls in India find a permanent place for sports in their daily lives for keeping fit & personality development. Also I hope more parents encourage their girls to not give up on sports!

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