Women IPL 2019

Had to write about it as had been following it closely & enjoyed it thoroughly too – all the matches went down to the wire so one has to appreciate the efforts of all organizers, players, administrators, sponsors, broadcasters!

Popularity of Women Cricket not just in India but across the world is on the rise, no two hoots about it. India being the largest country playing the game & because of the mass following plays the fulcrum role.
Post WC 2017 Success, Women cricketers have become household names & this is only going to increase with time. There have been milestones achieved like Launch of Historical Biography book, Magazines, Training facilities, WC T20 Semi Final berth, talks of mixed gender T20 Match, One Leg WIPL 2019, Exclusive Sponsorships, Women Commentators, etc.
These were not thinkable 2 years back but have happened & continue to evolve as a fresh source of involving more people in the game at the same time giving girls an equal opportunity as boys.

Now it’s time for IPL Teams (all 8) to start Women’s teams and give them a platform to perform by playing co-sponsors as Men’s teams. It should not be very difficult as the facilities, infra, trainers, coaches, grounds, etc. just need to be shared and not newly created.

How it has to be executed with Men’s IPL being a 55 day affair with hardly any scope of double games is to be seen.
Some efforts on part of sports administrators to show their creativity.

And as I conclude – may I please ask people to stop bashing Mithali Raj, the lady has been at the helm of so unnecessary criticism from the adrenaline junkies who don’t understand or wish to understand the nuances of games.
People should stop comparing Women players or try to create rifts amongst them, they all have their own strengths which is amazing given where they have reached almost single handedly with only parents & at times board supporting them.

I might be known as a Mithali Fan but am equally happy to see Smriti or Harman or Veda or Jemi or now Shafali, Harleen, etc. perform. They are faces that are girls in hinterlands of India shall look upto and seek inspiration from especially in times of doubts. So they all & many more need to be encouraged.
I do agree that I do not appreciate or like to see overtly high aggression in body language, words or expressions. Am most for aggression but through your performance like waiting for your turn & when you get it – make the most of the situation. But in doing that do not cause the natural turn of events get harmed.

 I do urge Mithali if she’s reading or listening to the +Ves around to stick around till WC2021 & get India the trophy. Build a team for that stage that can handle pressure & look to beat the best in the world like Aussies, England. I do think India is in Top 3 of the world in terms of ODI, its just a matter of being able to hold nerves & accelerate whenever necessary.
Mithali, herself can be a good weapon for India in WC2020 as there is no better (wo)man manger as a leader, who has seen it all & knows the opposition in all conditions, can be a reliable batswoman at any stage of the game. She just needs to focus on some solid power hitting – then there is nothing stopping her. She needs to hold on!

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I Saw Mary Poppins !

The Movie & the Message it wants to send across! To Believe !

To Believe like a Child & Never LetGo of that Belief – come what may!

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In today’s times of uncertainty & ever changing scenarios – it is important to hold some things dear & close together tucked in as deposit!

Let the interest of time, sweat make it Bigger & More Precious!

It is important we understand it & spread the +vity associated with the same.

Amen!

Have 0 Resolutions, 100 More Dreams!

Yes! Dreams Work!

Visualise them, clearly, cleanly & with no references nor influences. See them with a Happy & Relaxed Mindset with no pressures & no desires. Just visualise where You See yourself doing what, with who!

It is important that you see your Dream Vividly & Stay Honest to IT all the while.

Believe.

Now find steps to reach them & Get after them Non – Stop with complete focus & belief.

Surround Yourself with People who will be happy to see you there!

Be Patient.

Yes, its that Simple – Dream, Be Focussed, Find Steps, Work incessantly & Surround Yourself with Right People.

All Your Dreams will come True Like A Brightly Lit Sky Full of Stars & The Moon! Just Believe & Be Focussed.

Changing faces of Us & Our “Friendships”

Hello! So am back to write after a small self forced hiatus 🙂 It feels good to see the words flowing from your brain to your fingertips & appearing in front of your eyes again!

Life has been a bit different with the new role & hence the changes – its weird that how my Life has undergone so many changes around the job roles I have done in past few years. Shows good that my job profile is the most important thing for me in these years but bad that am not able to keep my own personal life in control to be unaffected with changes around it!

I do feel certainly that I took time to find MY SHOE FIT.

But am glad I tried so many different ones & then finally found my best fitting, comfortable ones that were customised to my needs. Did that with my lifestyle, career & now am optimistic of same happening for my Life Partner.

Now coming to the subject of “Friendships” which has been my favourite subject unconsciously since childhood days.

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Emotion is one of the strong things that I was introduced to as a kid during my growing up years – valuing your family, respecting your elders, always speaking good, believing in God & the values, understanding our history & ancestry to learn good practices.

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So I could never forget it!

And I always valued it a lot wherever I found it – it was like me becoming a gemstone expert & start wanting to polish the gems as soon as I locate one during my education, travel, professions, social circle, etc.
What I also figured out with relating to emotion was that investment was not foolhardy, it was giving me returns to be a more self aware, worldly wise, mature human so I continued to invest & even do so now.
Maybe my portfolio selection has undergone a change now thanks to a few bad experiences in the past where I either invested too much too soon (more) or I failed to overlook a good opportunity (less).

And I do feel proud that I have become wiser to selection of my people – friends, colleagues, networking groups & others thanks to updating my qualifying parameters & accordingly updating myself + tastes. I definitely do not take things on face value any more & I definitely do not make an opinion about others or try to form a bond inorganically.

With People, it is best when it is ORGANIC!

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Sometimes, circumstances play a role in making that judgement or bond formation quicker but as a qualified and self aware human – one should understand those factors well! I feel this is the beauty of a human being always be able to prove it’s superiority over machines.

ADAPTABILITY & EMOTIONAL BONDING makes HUMAN > MACHINES

Am happy where I have reached so far in my journey – looking forward to explore More & Meet New interesting people before reaching my final destination.

I wish to become more quieter, observing, less expressing, A polished Digital Consultant (who is truly a PM at basics) Profile, socially more acceptable & enhance my intake of ignoring the unnecessary (Thickening of SKIIN – adding more Onion Layers Happily) !

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Social Welfare on my Mind

Yeah, social welfare is always on my mind without doubt!

This is the space I wanted to be in since a kid & this is the space I aspire to be in post making some money, network, resources, skills for myself.

It motivates me, it guides me & most importantly find the true me when am lost! It also helps me connect with some amazing people & also learn to be a better person on regular basis without boasting.

It brings a sense of duty, a sense of balance to the whole Capitalism drive inside us – it makes me see things in a quiet, deep & well meant light. It doesn’t let me give up when am down & out – it makes me prevail the goodness & badness with same virtues : fortitude, temperance, prudence & justice.

Moreover, technically it helps me build some interesting models based on key human behavorial insights. It helps in keeping people like me who are city dwellers (mostly out of choice for lifestyle, jobs) understand the deep & true rural/small City simplicity connect!

How I want to incessantly work for the same & build something that outlives me forever.

Somewhere my ideal model is – within the walls of liberal capitalism, the values of socialism & simplicity to flourish.

The 4th Dimension – TIME

Science is Guided by Spiritualism … Spiritualism is ably supported by Science!

TIME! Its the mightiest… The most Powerful!

  • It can do the impossible
  • It can Grant you Miracles – never imagined
  • It can make hurdles appear boons never imagined

At times – my sense says that all you are trying to do most of the time is convince Time to be on your side. All you are trying to tell Time is that am Good & hence be gentle on me.

But nobody can fool or lie to TIME – as it sees through, through & through! You can’t be drinking most of the time & then complain about gaining weight or losing concentration or about shivering hands later on.

So here is how TIME can be on your side :
– Be Consistent with who you are & who you wish to be
– Be Persistent in what you want from life
– After this, there is not much you can do – Believe in Time & Let it Be!

Yes its that simple but never that easy to follow. Because there are demons (Self created, society adapted, unnecessarily thrown at you) on daily basis which you have to fight – more mentally than physically. They make the above 3’s strengths weaker. Hence it is important to Believe – strong & with Patience.

Here is something which I have acquired recently which helps me :

  • Looking back at Historical characters – the few ones I admire from mythology, medieval + modern periods & studying their responses to various situations – good & bad. This is a childhood fascination which has become more vivid & I have somehow started relating with them on human level more than leader or figurine level.
  • Choosing a few strong personalities with impacts – mostly female (As I understand that emotion is tough to avoid for them too) in fields which I relate a lot with – Sports, Services, Journalism who are fighting for the Right at the same time fighting in male dominated spaces to be their own best versions. But am particular about not selecting Females with connects, wealths, privilege or other non- conformists ‘starting grounds’ as it makes the whole study biased.
  • A few other role models in my personal, work life to relate with & understand me by, while understanding that no overlapping can be 100% true.

I do not state that these are the only ways by which Time can be controlled or befriended at best – but I feel by doing above I feel much in control of my own demons to face the Swings of Time Reels!

Happy Weekend Everyone!


The Past is over, no matter how you look at it. The future is only anticipated on the basis of your past experience. What you completely overlook in your emotional involvement with what is over and gone… is the Present, which is the only time there really is. The Present is the only time in which you can experience the whole Universe. It is the only time in which you are happy and free and alive. The Power of Now holds everything you really want, and everything that is real. This is the essential message of awakened teacher, Eckhart Tolle in his bestselling books, “The Power of Now” and “A New Earth, Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose,” which is also the universal experience that A Course in Miracles reveals.
The thing to remember is that the transition from time to eternity does not occur through death, but through a change of mind about yourself and the purpose of the world. Be assured that this is not a sacrifice, but a joyful glad return to the natural state of the wholeness and freedom of your mind.
We are made whole in our desire to make whole. Let not time worry you, for all the fear that you and your brother experience is really past. Time has been readjusted to help us do, together, what your separate pasts would hinder. You have gone past fear, for no two minds can join in the desire for love without love’s joining them.-A Course in Miracles

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Is India even close to the #MeToo Movement?

There has been some recent discussion in Indian Media regarding how India needs a #MeToo movement! I can’t help but agree. It makes me feel sick that how a Female is made to feel so little physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically basis her Gender/sexuality/ right to expression.

I had been feeling very strongly about gender discrimination for a very long time now and since #MeToo movement last year it only became more firm that expressing it & agreeing formally with system + stakeholders is the only constructive way ahead. Today’s Freida Pinto’s Post made me want to write this blog much more in detail.

As a middle class growing girl in India – one has to go through several weird experiences (even boys have to go through their own share of experiences but), am talking about the socially avoidable & enforced ones because of limited mindsets of people & historically dragged dogmas.

When one is touched inappropriately ; when one is made to shut up again n again ; when one is looked upon differently especially at their boobs & V-part; when one is not expected to do well in Sports or Studies ; when one is not expected to enter Kitchen during “that time of the month” ; when one is made fun of for asking equal treatment ; when one is not expected to carry her own bags or taking care of herself while travelling alone or completing her own projects/ assignments without their male counterpart (Father/brother/friend/ colleague/husband/son/ etc.) – THESE ARE CONSIDERED NORMAL EXPERIENCES in our Society!

SHAME ON SUCH PEOPLE – who let it happen
SHAME ON SUCH PEOPLE – who go through it quietly

SHAME ON SUCH PEOPLE – who scheme, perpetuate it knowingly or unknowingly

SHAME ON SUCH PEOPLE – who encourage & create an environment for such experiences to happen
SHAME ON SUCH PEOPLE – who laugh about it & make fun about it
And Most Importantly, SHAME ON SUCH PEOPLE – who do not raise it to right authority

When I say People – I mean girls, women, parents, family, husbands, everyone.

There is no Other way to deal with such behaviours/experiences but by being vigilant & aware to immediately raise the bell at the right authority and at right time. Also keep raising the issue till a resolution is found. To make it mandatory to make the system listen to you & give you justice. You are a human at the end of the day & deserve nothing less especially basis your gender.

I feel so burnt up inside when I think of what an emotional torture it must be for the girls, parents especially to be made to feel inferior & discriminated because of her Gender! If a city, educated, professional girl is made to Shut Up – Imagine the plights of those who are poor, unaware, ignorant.

To be Told this is acceptable is the Last Thing at least I will Take! I am ready to put in extra hours, ready to push my limits to extra miles but to be made to feel humiliated, uncomfortable, harassed or not respected for being myself is not acceptable in my Family, Social Circle, Office Environment or anywhere I decide to Breathe.

Am not for a loud, conflicting, verbose or hormonally high environment either – am all for Peace, Respect, Love, Humour, Smiles, Nods, Success : BUT not at the cost of Women or any race/caste/creed/color being sidelined.

So does India or the World or any society needs a #MeToo movement repeatedly – Hell Yes! Will there be negative repercussions of the same – Could be but the +Ves are far more especially the Noise, awareness & the empowerment to be yourself.

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!

How to be Successful

There are still not many who really know what they want in their lives. They are majorly happy with whatever they are offered & are content with that. They will still complaint, be unhappy, unhealthy but that’s another matter.

I, for one & many reasons, believe in being a self driver & doing your best in every moment while leaving the results to the Bigger Power.

There are absolutely most of the things which are out of one’s control & rightly so. Plus as you grow, you realise that more & more things are not in your control – the only thing is how you feel, think, say, do, react to situations on immediate & long term basis.

As many of us have felt – both kinds of reactions immediate & long term ones are based on our past experiences, personality, beliefs, etc. And our learnings based on these.

In order to have Consistency in our behavior patterns – it is important they are interlinked via a common goal.

And hence one should have dreams… Progressive, Long term, all inclusive, Ultimate Dreams!

How to achieve them…

  • Visualize them very clearly
  • Break them down into blocks to work on
  • Start working incessantly & with all honesty towards it – without distractions
  • Surround yourself with people who will help you achieve that – very important!

There is no force that can stop you once you are able to focus everything on your own efforts without worrying about the results!

One shall observe things falling into place on there own without forcing them to and that’s the ACTUAL way of Living! Letting things fall into place while doing your Karma.

Good Luck 🙂

Recent Thoughts on Political Views including Liberalism

This is a result of meeting someone awesome that you are completely in awe of as well as lots of drinking sessions with a bunch of uninhibited people who have their hearts & minds at the right place.

I am heavily convinced that people are same everywhere in the world – there are conservatives who are family bound, there are liberals who believe in being free & carefree, there are educated professionals who think they are liberals but actually don’t care or don’t realise what they are coz its convenient! There are Intellectuals & Deep moaners who just don’t want to Let Go!

People choose their political sides coz of following reasons :

  • Upbringing/ Family (20%) : Perhaps the most impactful & that too unconsciously, difficult to break off once tied to it
  • Professional (15%) : This one is more rational & becomes strong over the years
  • Deep Emotional Reasons (5%) : It has to come from some deep experience of the past – a wrong doing or a right doing
  • Convenience (60%) : This is the most common one, where people choose to not care as its too much effort & Ignorance is Bliss

More importantly, in my opinion, they keep justifying it forever – whatever it may take because somewhere they link their political stand to their personal, moral value system & saying a shade to their political views is casting a doubt on their moral values.

Also interestingly – once they take their stance on Right Liberal, Left conservative, Right Conservative or Left Liberal ; they will project themselves to be agreeing to 90% of its policies and disagreeing with a few again as per their convenience.

I do think that its a touche` matter & needs to be handled with sensitivity & open mindedness. Clashes should be avoided at all costs.

Sharing a 4-quadrant chart to understand where do most of the leaders stand.

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Interestingly – not many leaders fall in the Right – Liberal Quadrant for reasons obvious : since it is meant for Simple Mkt Policies based on science & economics research concepts. Leaders have taken stances favoring Right Liberal policies in moderation but mainly tend to stick to Right Conservative or Left Liberal Stances.
My Research threw up name of Mr. Thomas Jefferson, 3rd president of USA as the only through & through Right Liberal so far & that was perhaps he was an educated professional, scientist/inventor at heart hence insisted on the Right Liberal Policies.

Most of the Leaders in today’s time will go on to support Right Conservative, While the days of Left Conservative are restricted to China & Left Liberalism is kept for philosophers. I do think Right Liberalism is highly under-discovered.

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